I'm not really worried about the debt. If anything, I've been much worse acquiring assets without telling her. Never had an affair, but definitely practiced financial infidelity. I'm certainly not wealthy, but definitely not in a positron where $1,200 will damage me. I have spent probably $20k on cameras and lenses alone in the past year without telling her about a single dime. Have harbored a lot of guilt over this, and think it contributed to my current sitch. I think it a weird MLC phase on my part dreaming of a more exciting career as a photojournalist or sports photographer. Weird, I know! She said she wanted time and space and I didn't give it to her initially. So, now giving her what she wants and trying my best to not control or pursue in any way. This is a 180 for me. I'm having a Blast with the kids any way.

Nothing gonna breaka my stride, nothing gonna slow me down...oh no. Got to keep on moving... (song stuck in my head lately)

Last edited by SadDood; 05/03/15 02:35 PM.
M: 8 years, together 9
M: 41 W: 32
D 4, S 6
ILYBINILWY 2/10/15
2/14/15-2/22/15 Left home
4/5/15 Suspect A, Initiated Sandi's advice from WW thread
4/19/15 W asked for D