"W was great, caring and a great mum. All that's gone just now, and I have to accept that for the time being She has chosen someone else - albeit they may be only a friend - and left the family. It's what she wants and that's that at least for now."
I guess I'm just saying there's no more or less hope for your sitch than any of ours. I recall Wonka posting somewhere that hardly any sitches improve in the first 9 months after BD, so it is still relatively early days. But only you can decide what's right for you.
Having said that, I agree with RPP - it's no bad thing to limit contact - to protect your own heart if nothing else, and not enable your W further. And if you can do it in a DB way - busy, breezy and not cold - even better. And in the meantime, you know that there at least three lovely virtual ladies out there who think you're great!!
xx
Last edited by Toots; 05/03/1502:07 PM.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
