Thanks Toots, please don't think you had anything bad to do with my thoughts. I have always admired how you handled BD and how you deal with everything. I am down but at the same time Im not the person who can deal with what's happened W was great, caring and a great mum. All that's gone and I have to accept that She has chosen someone else and left the family. It's what she wants and that's that. For me , the betrayal is to much , I don't hate her or Anything like that , she is in a bad place financial and doesn't appear to have a good life from what she tells me. It's 7 months and nothing seems to be changing re her choices and the recent coming forward is classic temp testing
Re another R , I don't want to be disappointed again. I'm not a bad person and I would never rule anything out. I would kill for someone like you or Pink and I'm not kidding. All the ladies on this sites have done so much to try to change for themselves and their R that any of them would be great catchs for future partners
I will always be grateful to all on here who have helped me there is a select few that I would have as friends in the real world because you have always been there for me.
Toots I started with my new approach yesterday and where I would normally see W for a couple of hours I got it down to 4 mins. She called this morning and where we would have chatted for 10 mins it was only 2 W made a choice for herself and I have now made one for me
Thanks toots. Your advice and support was always valuable to me and I will follow your thread My L/C believes things happen for a reason and so do I. Your lsitch has plenty of opportunity because your ab will emerge from MLC eventually
