I am in the same sitch as you with my WAW. We don't have any children together, she moved 3 1/2 hrs away to live with her Mom and we have very limited contact. My biggest concern has been, even if I do change, how will she know?
Well, Zues, in the last post put it so perfectly: "But it would be IMPOSSIBLE to show him changes if you don't change."
So true, isn't it?
Take care....you're in my thoughts and prayers.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15