I think you're stretching with regards to alimony. Let's face facts, you were NOT putting forth the effort to advance your career. Slightly playing devil's advocate....... Why should she support you?
You started dating but then go off and have a conversation with her about the morals and values of marriage?

Dude.... I think you need to take a deep breath, evaluate you and keep working on you.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction