Bob... You blew through 6 pages in what 4 days. That is a testament to you and the impact you have on the people around you.
Now as for the phone. It is minuscule in the grand scheme. Pay the bill, then tell W that it will be the last time you pay the bill and that you would like her to cancel the bill/phone line/etc. Then stand tall.
Mahhhty,
Wow, thank you so much, you are too kind. And thanks as always for popping in on my sitch.
You are right -- It is minuscule in the grand scheme. It seems like the concensus is to pay the darn bill (it has finally been cancelled) but I may not even let my W know.
I thought TenBook had a good point, too: "How about you pay the bill and don't expect a single damn thing about it from your WAW. Don't even tell her or hint about it."
It kind of fits my mantra for the last few days "Say little...do much."
Mahhhty, I'd like you to know that your efforts to help me have not gone unnoticed. I dedicate a prayer to you every night. (Well, some nights I might fall asleep before completing them all-but I try!) Why? It's to thank God for your help and also that He helps you with your situation and continues to give you strength to move forward.
Take care of yourself.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15