WAS asked for divorce today.

[aNewGuy]

Hey Pilot, Thanks for that. I find myself coming here to write about this situation and it's a great outlet for me to blog about this situation here.

It's been a tough couple of months, but I am felling some better every day. I agree - being the best person I can is the right response to all of this. I'm doing pretty well at it. I am slowly but surely building up strength physically and emotionally.

It continues to be a roller coaster... I can't believe how much I love this woman and how quickly a song can come on the radio and make a grown man cry - or laugh - in remembrance of some special moment or event we associated with it.

My second job is far more physically demanding than any other job I have had in the past seven years. I am starting to see the results of this new found physical regimen from my second job in the mirror, and starting to feel it in my head too. The confidence is slowly building and I look forward to more of the same in the future.

One day, I hope my wife will decide to call me up. We still have all of the holidays this year, and all of the family events we used to go to together, and many more reasons why I will be missed by her in the future. I would say that if ever there was a case where a divorce might not actually be the end, mine is it.

What a learning experience this all is... I think perhaps it is time for me to pick back up Divorce Remedy and re-read it through eyes that are a couple months further down the road and see how differently it reads today compared to in February.

Thank you for your feedback, as always it is an answered prayer.

ANd Winhamn - hang in there man, I will be saying a prayer for you - and your wife - tonight. I know the hell you speak of on a first name basis!