Yes, quite an interesting concept, isn't it? For now, please work on what you can control, that is making any positive changes that you feel you need to make.
BTW, way to go with the weight loss. Woo Hoo!
Don't give up hope Lucy.
Your friend,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15