re: > has just been the hardest few years of my life <
Sounds like it. frown
Matt, remember your 'outlets' (where possible). It really is the only solution to counter these incidents & other ongoing misfortunes.
I do hope you > get a break soon & sometime to relax smile p.


pbetra
----
M: 15 yrs (in 2014)
BD: 6/03/2014
Infidelity ('known' from July 2014)
Denied PA Feb 2015
2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact.
Back briefly 2017 (after family death)
Separated 2017