But honestly it is frustrating. I am more hurt and sorry for my children as they have to learn to live with the failure of their parents.
Mahhhty,
When I got divorced in 1999 from my 1st wife, that is exactly how I remember feeling about our 3 children. I think most, if not all couples who get divorced, with chikdren feel that way at one point or another.
When we are in the midst of a situation like separation or divorce, we tend to think there are few choices available to us. In reality there are a million choices available to you, and the choices you make will ultimately be those that have an effect on both your immediate and your future actions. Your children will be watching you closely.
Try to take actions that show your children you all will get thru this. I'm not saying it's easy, but my children made it (they are now 19. 22 and almost 24) and I know yours will, too!
Keep posting - we're here for you.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
