I hucked a waterfall.

[mahhhty]

Lost, Mozza, Bob,
You all are definitely my corner lately. I can't express how much I appreciate it.

Try not to let what she does or doesn't do bother you too much. you're doing great, moments of weaknesses are allowed as long as you don't act on them!

Thank Goodness! I guess that is progress.

We all understand why what she does or doesn't do bothers you. As you know, I'm a lot like that with my STBX. You can only control your actions. Let's pray that someday she wakes up and starts doing the right thing.

Thoughts are things! I continue to hope.

Mahhhty, I think I get you (and I really like you, that's why I'm here). You've always been nice and that's how you relate to people, including love interests. I'm the same. But like Starsky309 did before, I'm learning to control my inner puppy. It's good to feel like my preferences (no other reason) matter and I do realize that it's more interesting and attractive for friends and women alike.

Mozza... Nice Guys 101 right?!?!?! I really had to start looking at how my indifference affected many situations of my life, as well as the word Fine. I've gotten rid of those items. I should always have a preference. And nothing should ever just be fine. Fine is not who I want to be.

Regarding her overlooking your pending questions: it's called procrastination. I do the same with WW. I take my time to respond not because I'm playing hard to get, but because it's unpleasant to deal with. I procrastinated on my taxes as well (done!), on some work, on cleaning my office, etc. It's human nature and it's not about you.

From my perspective this is still a little ridiculous. She was supposed to pick her stuff up in November. Any thoughts on how I should handle this?