Thanks for the thoughts and the prayers. And yes, I think I am going to use the words that Wonka shared -- I think those words are very age-appropriate and very true to what I feel about all of this.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015