It's hard not to check. It's good to see that the phone is switched off rather than deliberately ignoring you.
Sometimes that gives me a bit of hope that they just haven't seen the message rather not responding. I keep telling my self, have no expectations, if they do not reply I am not so disappointed. I returned my H text, it wasn't something he needed to respond to and he hasn't but I was ok with it. Another baby step.
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15