Jer - with MLCers you are d*amned if you do and if you don't as well.
Boy have I learned that through all of this!!! I think that is the most important thing to understand with MLCers... I've reached a point where I do realize this, so I don't worry quite as much about decisions now -- because it doesn't matter what I decide or do, she will ALWAYS think it's the wrong thing while she is in this crisis.
Fairly low-key day today... we tell them tomorrow unless W has a miraculous change of heart overnight.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015
