Unsurprisingly I agree with Toots - it could be that your supportive nature could is enabling her to stay lost. Sometimes people only grow up when they have to
You can still be there for your W because its not a black and white thing. The wednesday evening GAL i think is a really good thing to consider for a whole bunch of reasons
Hope your having a good weekend
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress