Hi Toots,

How was the theatre?

Sorry no experience of the divorce recovery workshops so can't say one way or the other. Either way i'm sure that you will find a positive out of it.

By the way did relate ever get back to you after that meeting? or did i miss that somewhere?

As for your H well who knows what he is thinking, I seriously doubt he knows, in truth he is one of the WAS that i read about that i actually feel really sorry for - though its probably more pity. As you already know there isnt much you can do about him and the decisions he makes, you've just got to look after yourself and see what happens.

((((Toots))))

In the short term though you need to focus on the new job smile


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress