W then said that she was missing me a little this morning and she said that was why she called at 4am a few nights ago too.
This is flirting and an indication that while you are supposedly delaying the divorce and delaying reconciliation you likely could be having sex with her too under the guise of "well, we both have needs". Hysterical bonding would likely ensue but you don't discuss that with her upfront as she's NOT really that emotionally connected to you right now but her statements above indicate a desire to have sex with you as the appropriate man available to her right now versus "making love".
* she's your wife...to me there is nothing wrong with that as long as you are certain she's not having sex with anyone else (om) at the same time...it would be nice if you insisted on her getting tested first because who knows how many nurses and volunteers the Dr. OM has been banging in the hospital over the years but that gets to be a pretty dicey line of demands and questioning when trying to be cool and casual...still smart when you've got young children...don't want both of you catching something permanent. It's also important that you not be a sap about this and bug the crap out of her about sex or being too touchy feely over the top emotional about it.
GB, I don't know if this was really her flirting or her wanting to have sex with me. When W tried calling me at 4 and 5 in the morning a couple of days ago, she was at work so it wasn't like she woke up desiring me sexually. We have had sex only twice since BD. Plus, I really don't know if W has stopped A or started with an OM2.
Journaling: W just left from my house after picking up the kids. I have no idea what W did last night and I didn't ask. She brought lunch over for the kids and I. W was her for about an hour or so. We talked casually about meaningless stuff and had an enjoyable time. Then W asked if would be able to meet with her and her L on Monday. I told W that I wouldn't be able to make it because I have a busy day at work. W said she understood and did say any more about it. W then asked if I could email her the account statements from our investments so she could fill out the financial affidavit. I said sure.
I helped load the kids in the car. I told W to have a great night with the kids. W put her arms out to give me a hug. While giving me a hug, W said, "Why do you have to smell so good?" I didn't respond.
I had a great day with the kids and plan to go see a movie tonight with some friends. I hope everybody's Saturday is going well.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
