Lucy, you seem to be two steps ahead of where I was when I joined which is good. I would really keep focusing on you and making yourself be the best Lucy there is. Then you will be happy no matter what and your H would be a fool to leave you.

Congratulations on the weight loss!

M 46 / H 43
T 24/M 18
S 4
11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY
1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom
1/8/2016 H moved out