Thanks guys. I'm trying to take care of myself and stand up for myself too. He continued to bring up job hunting every night until I confronted him nicely, and said, "I have been getting resumes out to the schools, but with the pneumonia right now I think it's more important to take care of our S and myself so that I can get better quicker. At the moment, I am not in good enough shape to do interviews if they call."
He agreed and said we should work on them this weekend. "If I'm feeling better, sure thing." Haven't heard anything since.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out