I Will let those feelings go. You are so right. Xh told me he'd think about me and how fun I was and silly. And not worry about things. And that no matter what we were doing - even renovating the disgusting apartments we flipped, we always had fun. I worried that after things transpired, he'd forget those things and just remember the intensity of his recent encounters. But I don't have energy for that anymore. What's done is done and it is what it is.
As far as my son.... I couldn't agree more!!!' I was shocked when he sent me what he sent xh. SHOCKED! And my reaction was telling him that I'm fine and not to worry about me! And I said to just be respectful and not engage in an argument.
I have stayed out of that r. S18 is adamant that he wants nothing to do w him not give him a ticket to graduation, etc. I do say, well he is your dad, he should be there. He was a great dad to you. I don't push or pressure in any direction, but try to be level headed and mature and remove my personal feelings.
Really- I just try to stay totally out of it.
I try to teach my kids to handle themselves respectfully and honestly as I would in any sitch, but don't tell them what to say or how to react. I don't want any of my influence in that.
Thanks uR. I hope more than anything xh comes out of this so he can really be a dad to my kids again.
Bea.... Kind of interesting, huh? We will have to see!
