Your WW will let YOU know if she wishes to R, you will not need to reach out. WW is out doing her thing for now. You can not know the future, if WW will want to work on your R, then she will make that very very clear. At this time, the kindest thing I can say is breathe and let WW complete her path.
I completely agree with this part. That is something I have struggled with since the start, not so much now. Thinking I am responsible to bring W back. Feeling like if I don't do something I miss an opportunity to get her back. The truth is thinking this way only keeps you in a bad place of feeling responsible. It stops you from detaching in a major way. You are not responsible for her actions, she is. If she wants a relationship with you, you will know. Right now she doesn't, she wants to continue her path and see where it goes, and you have to respect that and let go.
Let go of that thinking. W will make it clear if she wants to come back and you can deal with things if/when they cross that bridge. Focusing on it too much now keeps you from moving forward.
Last edited by Fogg; 05/02/1503:30 PM.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
