My d6 told me all about the OW this morning and how much my WW is in love with her.
She told that me my WW is staying in this city and the OW will stay in her city and that will be that. She told my D6 that she can go visit the OW and her daughters anytime she wants. My D6 said she doesn't want to visit her. The OW has two boys too not two daughters.
So.... seems like my WW is still in her fantasy or maybe reality at this point. I am telling my kids how much I love them and how happy I am for WW. I am broken inside but I guess that is the right thing to do. I don't want me kids to be worried or scared about anything.
My D6 also told me that she was "Student of the Month" and how she got her photo taken and got the certificte, etc... and guess what - she was not the student of the month. So go figure.
My question is - do I talk about this situation to my S9? I am guessing I should reassure him that everything is going to be OK without being pressing about details. That would probably make him feel uncomfortable. Maybe I should just let him tell me about it if he has questions.
Last night we had cub scouts. My WW called 6 times. I was very busy with the scouts and did not see the calls. I texted when we got home - all good. But 6 calls? Come on!
I will let all calls from her go to VM. If it's an emergency she texts.
What do you think DBer's - should I do anything differently? I am cordial but distant, trying to keep my life packed full of GAL but PMA is hard to do at this point. I am smiling and shaking hands and saying hello to everyone I meet which is a big 180 for me.
