Sorry, about the multiple posts, but I think his feeling is that he doesn't want to water any grass at the moment, due to all the press he's got from work, his kids and other demands on him at the moment. Not mine, or anyone else's.. Kind of believe him on that.
He said to me that "You seem to think that I have decided that it someone else that would be a better fit for me, than you. That someone else would be better or funnier or something and that is why I want out. It isn't. I haven't got the same feelings for you any more to keep up with the distance between us and I really need to focus on my kids at the moment. " His kids are going through a bit of a hard time at the moment..
So I don't think this is him trying to get with someone else, he just doesn't feel enough connection with me at the moment to keep going it seems..
M: 44 H: 43 ILYBNILWY: 7/4-15 Decided to try to reconnect. "This doesn't work, I have no feelings": 20/4-15 Scheduled "talk" :9/5-15 It's over: 9/5