Toots you said what I had typed and deleted about 5 times...... Except you said it in a tactful way and unfortunately I kept deleting because I know I was coming across too harsh.
Alpha, your "I'm better than you" attitude hasn't changed. And if I were a betting person (I'm not, gambling makes me sick to my stomach nervous) I would say any new relationship is doomed to the same problems when the "new relationship high" wears off.
If you reread your posts YOU sound like a WAW in the middle of an affair, justifying your actions by turning everything your wife does/is into a negative.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction