Toots you said what I had typed and deleted about 5 times...... Except you said it in a tactful way and unfortunately I kept deleting because I know I was coming across too harsh.

Alpha, your "I'm better than you" attitude hasn't changed. And if I were a betting person (I'm not, gambling makes me sick to my stomach nervous) I would say any new relationship is doomed to the same problems when the "new relationship high" wears off.

If you reread your posts YOU sound like a WAW in the middle of an affair, justifying your actions by turning everything your wife does/is into a negative.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction