Hi job! I was thinking that... I guess since there have been some stirrings w xh lately. Well, he has been making contact in a round-about way recently. It could be a coincidence, but it had me thinking about how it could affect them. It actually wouldn't surprise me if some go all-out werewolf!
But... I think there is some really telling things in xh's behavior. I feel like he is regressing. I don't communicate w him, but the communication w s18 seems like it says a lot.
His immature responses continue. They have been going on big-time since February. He was doing it to both kids and I. Like, "you're cool" when he wouldn't get a response or didn't like it.
But, when xh came around, he was so apologetic w s18, yet when s18 didn't buy right into it, he was so combative w him.
And now it continues! And the biggest thing with "you think you're a tough guy" when s18 wasn't even going there.
So... w s18's response...
he told him he tells people he doesn't have a dad and he can tell people he doesn't have a son, xh's response was, "cool dude."
It is so weird. And to go from, you think you're a tough guy... to, cool dude. And the night before... I miss you s18.
I think there is some serious projection. I don't think he learned much of anything during his "touch and go."
It's so sad. I'm not letting it hold me back. Just was thinking about it. I'm about to go work on the layout of my kitchen.
