You are right, she isn't interested in hearing me or my feelings at all. In the end, it was really just an attempt to try to make a positive connection with her. I thought by leaving any reference to me or "us" out, it might not be smothering her.
Next weekend is "my" weekend with the kids and making mothers day cards was on my "to do" list.
Finding it really tough to come up with solution orientated actions for "my relationship" at the moment. Any sort of connection seems horribly impossible.
Part of the motivation for the card was to express to her that she's a great mom. One of her long term relationship complaints is feeling taken for granted and is never shown any appreciation. Again, what I need to understand is she isn't wanting to her that from me at the moment.
She's harboring a lot of anger, focused toward me, right now. I really wish she'd just yell at me a lot.
Me: 35 Her (WAW): 34 D8, S5, D2 T:16, M:9 BD + D: 4/3/2015 EA Confirmed 5/6/2015 Separation under the same roof
