I thought everything was okay....(Part 6)

[Vanilla]

But V - how will we ever be in another relationship if we are not willing to risk that possibility? Even if there is R with our WAS, there's always the possibility that they are still seeing someone on the side, no?

Gan, yes of course. When we are vulnerable then on line is higher risk and some sites more than others because there is a higher than average chance of touching base with a WW or WH.

Yes, MCS you are right in your interpretation, maybe I was clumsy in my wording (hits head with plan of hand Duh!)

Why do I say be conscious about the others on dating sites?

1. There are more WS than you think out there
2. They lie
3. It's easy to hide on line
4. They are likely more active in seeking out POWs or POMs
5. LBS are more prone to be taken in (history)
6. Having worked at DB, more likely to be cuter, more positive, more attractive as a POP
7. Those that join a 'free' dating site have no costs on credit cards etc for spouses to find

It isn't my place to say whether to date or use the Internet, but my view for what it's worth is do so consciously and deliberately, take no one at face value out there until you know their lives. And no intimate or close conversations and risk an EA with someone who might be someone else's WW or WH especially if unconsciously joining a free site. It's like leaving the Tuck Shop open unattended with an eat all you can sign. These unscrupulous have instant repore stills in spades. Think Catfish. They don't all join marital affair sites or sugar allowed. Learn from Sandis sitch.

V