Alpha Step At A Time #5

[Sotto]

Hi Alpha, good to hear from you. I'm pleased to hear about your growing confidence and that you seem more detached from what your W is doing. JMHO, but I think you should remain very aware that dating isn't the answer right now.

If you've read my sitch, you'll see that one of the big things that has caught up with my H is that he never got to be a full time Dad. That was a product of the breakdown of his first M, and he just got to parent at weekends because of that. Only you can decide what you want to do, but be aware that these are big decisions and that things may well change yet with your W.

If you get straight involved with someone else, you're just avoiding work that you need to do. Best to focus on a more healthy route of making new friends, doing new activities, being a good Dad, working on yourself and so on. You don't need affirmation from a new woman for any of that. JMHO, and I wish you the best, whatever you decide.

Have a good weekend :-)