Hi Complex, I'm so sorry to hear about what's happened - that's tough. It sounds as though you were struggling to process things yourself in your earlier post, and then you and your W had a talk. When we're in a strong place, we can better handle or deflect convos like that - but it's harder if they catch us at a vulnerable moment. I can't recall, but are you seeing an IC yourself right now? I did for a while and it did help me come to a more settled and clear place about things in my mind.

The best advice I can give is not to make big decisions based on emotion. You are saying in your post that you don't give a damn, want to move on and never see her again. Of course when things settle, those feelings may well change, so do bear with them and give yourself some time to process things. We all experience backslides and it needn't be the end if you don't want it to be. You get to decide.

Hope you have a better day :-)

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus