Bob I wish I was in a better spot today to say something that might actually help. I really care for you and I'm sorry she responded so coldly.
Hey RealMe,
Taking the time out of what sounds like wasn't a good day for you does help!
I can tell you really care about me and others on this forum.
You are right on with this: "We have to make this completely about us, and not about the W's."
Hang tight my friend. I wish you well and that you have a better day tomorrow. I'll check in with you sometime tomorrow.
Your friend,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15