Wow...I'm spacing out the last 2 days. Sooo busy at work (better than not enough to do) and then the text that caught me a little off guard.
Maybe I'm getting you mixed up with MrBond. LOL Both of you give golden advice.
Thanks for the reminder about giving as much detail as possible. I know that from being on these boards since Christmas Day, but the reminder can't hurt. Looking back to last night, I was so tired I should've waited until today to post. I honestly meant to put a brief comment in about the AT&T bill.
Oh well, just since last night I feel so much stronger from all the support I'm getting from everyone here!
I have learned with DB'ing to "keep the road back home paved smooth" I thought about that last night, but I also wanted not seem like a doormat since W's procrastation made the bill much larger than it should be. My gut instinct was to not responfd or pay the bill. But, as TenBook pointed out, I should do the opposite of my gut instinct. TenBook, sorry if my post was confusing. I know you suggested to not pay it, thinking my gut feeling was to pay it.
I feel like that is my biggest struggle: Keeping the road back home paved smooth vs "Standing Tall and Firm" to quote Sandi.
It seems like everyone agrees with my wonderful friend Wonka.
I guess I'll be sending the text. Maybe, since it's almost 10:00 PM here, I'll wait unyil tomorrow.
Thanks All!
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Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15