WAH with one foot out the door and one in.

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H actually came home not so late, but acted standoffish. Still I acted very pleasant and did not let it bother me. Swear that he is acting that way in response to my detaching --kind of tit for tat. Not sure if that is normal response when you start to detach.

I was proud of myself though. I had gone out to eat earlier by myself (something I got comfortable with from my work travel) in the eve and let him fend for himself. Let him start conversation and asked about his day. I happily engaged for a little and then walked off to my room. He seemed more interested in getting something done for work. Continues to use work to avoid working on our R.