In other news. Went to the L today. Overall, good advice. I think I'm just going to stand-by for now and see what WW's next move is, August is when she can file.
L got a little defensive for me. It was nice and genuine, but tough at the same time. She said she totally sees my character, where I'm coming from, what I desire for the kids, how I'm approaching the sitch, etc. Told me my only problem was that I needed to get to the point that 'I' am not trying to fix her. I said, I realized that a month or so ago. She also said that she has seen this type of behavior in WW's, but it seems that my WW is taking things way farther than normal; to an unhealthy level especially with kids involved. Said that WW definitely needs to go see IC at a minimum; probably more. She said it seems like WW has really deep emotional problems beyond me or the M. Then said:
"MCS, you're a really nice guy and I commend you for how you are handling this. I've seen this type of thing before and if WW starts to want to R; You need to be really, really, really careful. In fact, you don't want to hear this; but I've been doing this for a long time and I'd be really concerned even trying to R."
Yep, that one hurt a little....
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
