I know there are no guarantees but.....

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Mozza, I re-read something I wrote above and wanted to clarify. I said I am being very honest and open and that is NOT my normal character. Let me correct that. I am not usually very especially about my personal life and especially with people I don't know.

This is partly just the way I am and partly due to what I do. Just wanted to clarify. As for honesty....I don't get along with liars at all.
I hope you understood what I meant but couldn't hurt to clarify.

So I am still reading your story and WOW you get some great advice from 25yearsmlc. Here is a question for you if you don't mind.

You are lucky (???) enough to have some interaction with your wife. (Keep in mind I am not all the way through your story so if this has changed I apologize. I am in the third string and the issue is around the stroller and your just having received email confirmation of OM (Sorry to hear that bro))

So....with some interaction(S) it gives you the opportunity to show her with your actions, because they speak louder than words, that you are changed or changing or better or the original guy she fell in love with. One or all.

So what do you do in my situation when my wife is not making any contact, emails, phone calls, texts...nothing? Is my situation easier or harder? Better or worse. She hasn't confirmed OM and I haven't asked.

We haven't spoken since Monday when we got divorced and with her already having OM spend the night with my 16 yr old stepson there ..... well its not like she is trying to hide it. Based on what 25years has said in your posts....that cant be good for me and my hopes ....

Anyone??
Life preservers??