I think V is saying that we don't know if the person is a WW or not.
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Honestly, I didn't know that it emailed when you hit "like." Honestly, I did reply back knowingly.
However, your point of lying is interesting, because one of the things I avoided was anyone who said that they wanted a relationship, 'see where things go,' etc. The marital status was the same as mine 'Currently Separated,' the profile and our correspondence has seemed very much more LBS than WW. No details, but we both have discussed how we couldn't have imagined being on a site like that just a few months ago. Also, there's definitely been some hesitation on both of our parts to understand where we stand in the grand scheme of things and it seems like we are both 'proceeding with extreme caution.' I can keep making up excuses for justifying it, but it very much seems like two folks in similar situations emailing back and forth. However.......
In saying that, what surprised me is my hesitation of sharing this with other people. That's why I posted here because I'm definitely feeling slightly confused that my reaction was this 'keeping it secret.' I will say at one point over the last week, I started to understand how EA's were easy to get into when emotionally there is a void. Again, just me thinking about that caused me to pause for a bit.
Am I being straight with myself? I don't know, I think I am. I think my eyes are wide open ahead of me, but my reaction was different than I expected.
Hmmmm.......
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
