Hey, V. I did sign, days ago. H set up all the paperwork. Signed everything unimportant and told legal he wanted me to sign important stuff first if it all looked good. So I did and now he's not returned her calls to come in and finish it.

It's been good to be with my family during this sad time, celebrating a life well lived. H knew at breakfast that day that she was going, so it is ridiculous that he's texted my friend and cousin asking "I heard Z was going to a funeral, who's?"

But he did send me a random article yesterday on how to get a refund perhaps for a utility service - one of those things that make you go huh?

when he could've asked me directly, or offered condolences if he's so concerned about the loss in my family. I didn't bother responding.

So very weird. V, you are right, there is no point in wondering.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.