hold on! - 9

[Vanilla]

Peter and U turn, my take on the 'meeting the needs issue' is very different.

No other full adult is here to meet anothers needs. We are here for our higher power, to learn to fulfill our own needs. To be the best we can be for ourselves to give to others is an option not a need. We have no expectations when we give as we do that for free.

We are here for ourselves to:
To Connect to our feelings, all of them including those we consider negative
To be sensitive to ourselves and others and their feelings, to be aware
To be present and mindful in our lives and work
To relax to be present in our lives
To interact with others as positively as we can
To be kind and prevent harm
To cherish ourselves and let others free to be themselves
To be ourselves in or out of an R
To be vulnerable
To commit to ourselves
To be independent and free of spirit
To look after ourselves with extreme care

Let other adults carry out that job for themselves. Being for ourselves is enough work for one lifetime.

V