WAH - gone almost 1 year, still so hard.

[stacey9]

HeavyD thanks so much for your kindness. Your WAW still shows so much emotion - the tears and anger, I've had none of that from my H, its like he's been totally cool and detached from the start. So surely then she must have doubts about her choices? I think you are handling things perfectly.

I can honestly say there have been moments in my marriage where I felt complete and utter happiness. Just being in that place and time where I didn't want anything or anyone else. I don't know if he ever felt that with me. I think this must be what he has now with OW. So this makes me wonder - why should he stay with me, his childhood sweetheart and mother of his children if he can have sparks, passion, contentment, bliss, whatever, with OW?

He knew he would be the hated man for a period, and then everyone would get used to it, which is exactly what's happened. It is win win for him. Infuriatingly so.

Thanks again HeavyD