Thanks RPP, I'm sorry I never saw your post till now.
Well I have only seen H once since his move. I have heard through the grapevine that he and OW are so very happy in their new place. It's just like a fairytale ending for them.
But most days I am happy. I have to admit I still think about him most of the time, but I know that will fade the less I see him. We are very close to a settlement being agreed and after that I will be expecting the D papers through the door.
I feel fit and healthy and I know this is a new beginning for me. When I think back to how I was after BD I'm so happy I survived!
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014