Anyway I agree with toots. Get her something she wants or that the kids want to get her. My d8 (me)got w makeup bag and some makeup. Nothing sentimental at all. Anything sentimental will be seen as needy and pursuing and she'll see straight through it
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on