Trying to Follow DB & DR (3)

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Probably because she's been lying about things she's been doing and who she's been doing them with since BD. It is kind of hard to maintain a high level of respect for anyone who does that. Just last Monday she flat out told me that she wasn't spending her money on staying in hotels with the OC, and low and behold a friend saw her and OW at a hotel party last weekend.

Maybe because I feel like the entire sitch is one giant betrayal.

But mostly because she has come into the house to take things without saying anything at all before. She came in and out without a word, not even a heads up, or even an after thought. I wanted to change the locks SO badly after that but never did.

She has mentioned she wants to take the cats and here she had almost 3 whole days to do that all to her hearts content with a 0% chance of getting caught or running into me. To me that seemed like a giant, guilt-free opportunity for her to do what she wanted and take what she wanted.

Even before leaving for this trip I wanted to change the locks while I was gone. I wound up "giving her the benefit of the doubt" and decided not to. Thankfully she didn't betray that trust.