Freddy, I am not sure if I ever wrote this to you. I have been around a long time. Far longer than my register date. I dont post to a lot of people. Mainly because I like to stay with people throughout their journey if I can.
But also because in order for me to post to someone, I need to feel a connection of some sort. It can be how they write, what they write, similarities in our sitches, or just something about them that resonates with me.
I liked your willingness to "hear" what we have to say and your wanting to work on yourself.
A lot of times, when we feel better, stronger, happier, we kind of slack off a bit on doing the work. I am not saying you are doing that, not at all.
I believe that you should finish your stuff before you start a new relationship. I dont mean finish working on you because that should continue for the rest of our lives.
But I mean people should get divorced if that is how their sitch turns out, before dating. I think people should be alone for awhile and just live, ya know?
You say that she hasnt been with anyone since February like its a long time...its two months.
I care about you. I hope you know that. I am glad you are looking at it the way you are.
Just live your life. Get good with you. Plenty of time for all of that.
If it's meant to be, it will be. Til then...keep walking your path.
