Ok, Mighty, I am not going to let you off the hook..you are too important. So, I am again reading between the lines with the following...
Originally Posted By: Mighty
I am not going to beat myself up. But when I read things like Cali's sitch and feedback...etc... I know I was OK... but I think that the intensity of everything was so much more exemplified bc of the baby sitch.
When you write, but, it kind of negates everything that comes before it, ya know?
You cannot compare sitches. They are personal to the people in it. I just want to say that nothing you said or did could have stopped this from happening. I promise you that. This crisis was destined to happen. I know you feel that you could have handled things differently at times. Even if you did everything however perfectly looks in your head, he would have still had to go through this.
If you stop a crisis in the middle, it comes back stronger later on.
So, work on letting go your feelings of having done something wrong. That doesnt serve you well.
