To Pursue or Not #2

[Arcola]

Hello DBers. I was wondering if maybe I'm doing too much when it comes to getting W a gift for Mother's Day? I got the idea because I received a Groupon email for Mother's Day gifts. Last night I bought W a necklace with a pendant with 8 birthstones. Each birthstone on the pendant signifies each child we've had except one represents twins we had. Prior to sitch W and I have lost 4 children either still birth or premature. Moreover, their are engravings on the pendant that say the words "All My Angels" and (heart shape) Always

The reason I ask if its too much is
1) Our sitch
2) On past Mother's Days the gifts haven't been sentimental aside from the card

Its already bought because I didn't want to miss out on personalization and it arriving on time. Also, since sitch and working on 180s I've not waited to the last minute (1 - 2 days before occasion whether for her or children) to get a gift.