This is true too. Ibecoming the best you is an impossible task and a life long journey tho. It's an attitude, not something that can ultimately be achieved.
But I am who I am, which is good.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15