I'm screwed no matter what.

If I show concern, I am pursuing and she loses respect.

If I ignore her, I am uncaring in her time of need and she loses respect.

Sigh...

Me M51
WW F46
T 17 yrs
M 16 yrs
9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17
8 grandchildren
ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14
I discover PA 12/31/14
She files D: 1/9/15
She moves out 3/2/15
D papers served 3/18/15