"stating that every time she has to contact my L it costs me, so it's in my best intersts to communicate with her directly"
AND
"I am required by law to communicate with her when the interests and welfare of our kids are concerned. Any non communication from me is in violation of the law. As my l - he needs to inform me of this fact....."
If it were a real issue about the welfare of the kids - I respond IMMEDIATELY - here is what the issues of the day she was pissed at that I did not respond to immediately were:
Yearbook photos Tickets to a baseball game I am turning the kids against her
My IC said that her actions do not indicate someone who wants to separate. She said people who want to D don't keep contacting and/or comunicating with soon to be x. She said her actions do not match her words.
I am doing my best to not contact her, no pursuit, being cordial if we do talk, I don't reply to her immediately unless it's a bonafide emergency (kids sick, school problem, etc..) Most of the time, I don't reply to her at all.
She threatens me to communicate with her, "you must talk to me" yet is pushing hard and fast for D.
