Update: W came upstairs to speak with me last night about our sitch. She apologized for getting mad at me that i was on a dating website. W then started talking about our R and how things were (good and bad). W started to cry. I validated all of her feelings about how i wasn't there for her emotionally, how she thought i perceived her, and how i didn't have her back. W said that she doesn't think i have to make so many changes for her and vice versa. W believes that we should marry people who we don't have to make changes for. I validated her feelings and responded with "I believe we will always need to make changes in a relationship and even in my next relationship i expect to make changes."
We finished the conversation talking about selling the house and whether the sitch is affecting S2. I told W that I would like to stay in the house to keep a little stability for S2, but she wants to sell asap. I ended the conversation and told her we can discuss this another time as it was almost 2am.
Me-35 W-34 Married 6/2011 T-6 years S-2 BD-3/22/2015
