I think not telling anyone else about this site is a great idea, please be careful with this woman as she is married and you are still recovering from your divorce.
And I just want to share that I know a fair amount of people that have gotten divorced and then re-married to their spouse.
So it DOES happen. And I reiterate YOU will be the one that gets to choose that scenario in the end. (Not right now)
P.S. when you are posting can you please hit carriage return every time you put in a period. I really struggle to read your posts when they are a big BLOCK of type.