cadet, Welcome to my story! Yes, he probably said it more like you did. Notice I did not quote
I have seen the shift in our divorced relationship. I know how I feel and what is working for me. That is all that I can focus on. She has to come to me. Much like a cat, I have to let her be and come at her own pace. She checks things out, reaches out, and then goes quiet for a few days. Again, I have removed boundaries that I had up. I am welcoming without pursuing and charming without showing interest. I share a funny story every now and then. I very rarely invite her to things I do with the kids. Sometimes, knowing she wants to be with us, I will send a pic via text. If I do, she is all over it. If I send no pics, she chats us all up about what we did and such. I am in control and confident that with everyone's help here, I can post in the success stories someday.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
